What if one evening could teach you more about the other participants – and about yourself – than three ordinary dates? A singles event that works differently from anything you already know.
You take dating seriously – and realise that small talk and interchangeable profiles do not give you what you are looking for.
You are not looking for a performance. You want to understand what makes someone tick, what drives them and how they think – before investing weeks or months in a connection that was never likely to work.
And you wonder where to meet people who feel the same way. That is exactly why we created this evening.
You are looking for substance, not casual encounters.
You see personal growth as something enriching.
You prefer honest connection to a polished performance.
The idea
Most people experience dating as a gamble: sometimes it works, sometimes it does not, and the reasons remain unclear. We see it differently.
During the evening, you will learn about psychography – an intuitive, practical personality model that helps you see yourself and others from a new perspective. You can understand the person opposite you more quickly and make a more informed assessment, without guesswork or rigid labels.
For each conversation, you receive prompts tailored to your particular combination of personalities. They create a strong starting point for a meaningful exchange and help you explore honestly whether you might be a good match.
What to expect
Three hours. Three stages. One aim: to leave with a clearer sense of who may genuinely suit you.
Daniel introduces the three basic types and shows you how to recognise what truly motivates people. You will explore the dynamics that arise when meeting someone and what to notice in a first conversation.
No repetitive “What do you do?” rounds. Each conversation comes with prompts tailored to your personality combination – an invitation, not an obligation. Five minutes with each person that can genuinely count.
Time to ask about meeting again or make spontaneous plans. If you prefer to decide in peace, message us after the event with the people you would like to see again. We will connect you when the interest is mutual.
Two dates
Similar age is not everything, but for many people it is an important factor when looking for a serious relationship. Research also suggests that stable long-term partnerships are particularly common between people of a similar age and life stage. This is why we offer two separate evenings.
Further formats for other age groups and queer participants are being planned.
Optional preparation
Ten questions, no login and about five minutes. Get an initial idea of which of the three basic types may fit you best before the event.
Dr Daniel Köpke is a relationship coach and communication trainer in Berlin. He combines evidence-informed models with practical experience from hundreds of coaching sessions and workshops. His approach: good relationships are not a matter of luck, but grow from self-awareness, an understanding of others and effective communication.