Great relationships start with the right mindset
Couples counselling and coaching as a structured alternative to lengthy therapy – for couples who want to find their way back to each other.
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Dr. Daniel Köpke
Couples counsellor and coach since 2019
> 7 years' experience
in couples counselling & coaching
Certified NLP trainer
(IN & ICI)
Evidence-informed approaches
John Gottman, David Schnarch, Esther Perel and more
Appointments in Berlin
or online
Does this sound familiar?
What many couples experience
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Arguments about the same issue – money, household tasks, in-laws – without a real resolution.
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Stress, busy calendars, everyday life – and no energy left for real closeness in the evening.
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You have grown apart – physically or emotionally – and want to get closer again, but do not know how.
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On essential topics such as having children or parenting, you have significant differences and do not know how to deal with them.
What is possible
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You understand what truly lies beneath your conflicts – and how you can resolve the issue.
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Together, you experience a space free from judgement – the basis for deep, lasting change.
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You understand each other on a holistic level and can accept each other with your weaknesses and "flaws".
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Concrete everyday routines that help you respond differently in difficult moments – and be more consciously present in the good ones.
Sometimes a therapeutic process takes months. Sometimes a structured coaching process over a few sessions is enough. In the discovery call, we will work out together what suits your situation – even if that is not me.
Das Zwiecoaching
A structured 3-phase programme: 4 intensive conversations, 1 concrete goal, 1 tangible outcome – for couples who do not want to wait years for change.
Initial analysis
Identifying the real roots beneath the surface – what is truly behind the conflicts.
Two separate coaching sessions
Each partner experiences a deep transformation while observing the other partner's transformation at the same time.
Conclusion & integration
Shared routines and tools for lasting change – so progress endures.
Individual coaching for relationships, separation & new beginnings
Not every relationship issue begins as a couple. You may be looking for a partnership, want to sort through a separation honestly, or find your way back to yourself after a difficult relationship.
Explore individual coaching
Evidence-informed,
humanly delivered
Couples counselling and coaching are based on established personality and relationship models. I will not fob you off with esoteric platitudes or pop psychology. With me, you receive practical tools that you can use in your everyday life right away.
NLP & hypnosis
Neuro-linguistic programming and change techniques from hypnosis transform deeply rooted patterns – quickly and sustainably.
Psychography
Dietmar Friedmann's personality model explains why we react so differently in relationships – and how genuine understanding begins.
Attachment theory
Attachment styles shape how we experience closeness and distance. Knowing your style helps you understand your reactions – and change them deliberately.
Wheel of Consent
Betty Martin's model clarifies who gives and receives in an interaction – and who truly has a say. A key to healthy boundaries in relationships.
What type are you in relationships?
Dietmar Friedmann's Psychography distinguishes three personality types. This knowledge can explain everything about your relationships.
Ready for the first step?
I will get back to you within 24 hours.
The discovery call is free and without obligation.
Request a discovery call